Valentine’s Day Gift Guide
valentine’s day gift ideas for Couples
In the past we’ve had the normal, run-of-the-mill things (nothing bad about that!) like robes, bath caddies, and so forth. But now we are focused on the products that won’t come up in every Google search, and will really make an impact on your lives.
Here are the best Valentine’s Day gifts, in no particular order, that will make a lasting impression and improve your relationship. We’ve loved them so much that we’ve partnered with a few and include discount codes where we could snag them:
- Hey Ritual, our favorite couple’s therapy app (20% off with link)
- Lumen “Duo” Plan Metabolism Tracker ($50 off with RYANANDALEX)
- Monthly Colombian flowers and coffee with BloomsyBox (10% off with DUOLIFE10)
- Our Couples Yoga Program
- Our bucket list journal for couples
- Monthly date nights delivered with Crated with Love subscription (10% off with RADL)
- Couple’s massage course by Melt
- MasterClass for couples who want to learn to cook, garden, drink wine, have sex, and more
- A favorite card game for couples: Love Lingual
- Couple’s journal, one line a day. Surprisingly awesome
- Codenames Duet, a cooperative game for two
- Best, relationship-enriching read: The 5 Love Languages
Let’s get to it!
Our Best Valentine’s Day Gifts Ideas for Couples
The real relationship strengthener. This is what truly matters.
If we had to pick one gift for our partner, it would be this.
Rephrase thinking about it as couples therapy. Instead, it’s like coaching or getting a trainer to grow, strengthen, and coach your relationship to make it as strong, adaptable, and solid as can be.
Over the years, we’ve used many apps and sessions for couples coaching. Ritual stands out a head above the others. The app is focused on your video sessions with a couples coach, as well as offers guided lessons, quizzes, and even homework assignments that truly make a difference.
For us, our never-ending, recurring argument of 12 years finally got settled. Here’s our full experience and Ritual app review.
Discount Code: 20% off with our link
Starting at $195
For getting on your healthy A-game.
We’re excited to announce that Lumen now has a special duo plan for couples. Just introduced, you can buy one Lumen device and link it to 2 different accounts. (And if you already have one, you can add an account now!)
Sure, an unorthodox gift for Valentine’s Day, but if you and your partner love tracking and improving your health, there’s no better tool than Lumen.
Lumen shares your metabolism in real-time, so you can track how your diet, workouts, stress, and sleep affect your body. With the subscription, diet recommendations are given to optimize your meal plan for your metabolism. Here’s our experience and full Lumen review.
Discount Code: $50 off with code RYANANDALEX
Starting at $249
Colombian coffee and flowers, monthly.
A home run here for any loved one on Valentine’s Day.
When we order flowers, whether on a subscription or as a one-off, we go with BloomsyBox.
Our flowers have been so fresh that they’ve lasted over two weeks. We love that all bouquets are exceptionally creative and ethically harvested.
Plus, BloomsyBox also offers bags of Colombian coffee on subscription as well. Win-win for us!
Discount Code: 15% off with our link and code MEARLYVDAY15
Starting at $50
Enrich your relationship and plan the most memorable moments of your lives together.
We stand by this book… and yes, we’re the ones who wrote it.
We used to move a lot, and we found that every time we made a bucket list for our new city, we had a deeper, more intentional, and meaningful experience. This transformed into our love for bucket lists, which act as a vehicle for planning life’s best experiences together. In other words, the ones that can’t be missed.
But too often we miss them because they’re not discussed or brainstormed together to even get the idea started, or given a time, place, or budget. Use this journal as a template to build your list of lifelong memories to share, together.
$13 on Amazon
Monthly game night, delivered.
Research says the longest-lasting relationships have monthly date nights.
The small business owners are a couple themselves, and they’ve experimented for years on creating the best games possible (and sometimes quite challenging!) for couples. We love the surprise of what we’ll receive every month.
Discount Code: 10% off with our link and code RADL
$25 Per Box
Melt: Massage for Couples is an online couples massage class that teaches you and your partner how to give deep, therapeutic, professional-quality massages at home.
This is the best, most unique gift idea for couples to do together.
Packages Start at $35
This is the sex education that every couple needs.
Emily Morse is a sex therapist, author, and podcaster, with more than 1 million listening to Sex with Emily. Her class is guaranteed to spice up your marriage.
Masterclass has been a fun and productive way to replace our Netflix time over the past two years. We share our other favorite classes so far here. You don’t need to learn about sex.
Up your date nights with cooking classes, gardening lessons, photography, and loads more.
Starting at $142
These cards are the best we’ve found, and we try hard to curate the best couple’s games.
Love Lingual: Card Game was inspired by couple’s therapists and psychologists.
Dive into a variety of topics concerning love, romance, and intimacy with your partner. This game keeps on giving and makes for a perfect at-home date night.
$25 on Amazon
Writing in this journal is our favorite nightly ritual (for the last 4 years).
The journal is the most valuable and entertaining way to celebrate your relationship before bed each night.
It asks a new question a day, with spaces to let you answer for three years. It’s been so funny to review our prior years’ answers.
$7 on Amazon
Looking for a fun, long-term game where you don’t have to compete all of the time? Instead, try out Codenames Duet, where you work together to beat the board.
A campaign map keeps this fun game going for nights on end. It’s a win-win situation.
$25 on Amazon
This is a must-read for all couples.
The book teaches you how to show your partner love. If their language is different than yours, you’re not filling up their “love tank.”
$9 on Amazon
Closing thoughts on Valentine’s Day GIft Ideas
Wishing you and your loved ones a great Valentine’s Day! We hope this gift guide gave some fresh ideas, from one couple to another. Again, these are the products we use and love ourselves — some of them, like the Q&A journal, for almost a decade!
If you’re still itching for more gift ideas, the following resources may help.
- 7 Monthly Subscription Boxes for Couples That Won’t Flop
- The 20 Best Two-Player Card Games for Couples
- 25 Award-Winning Board Games For Couples
- The Best Books for Couples to Read Together (And Discuss)
- Apps That Every Married Couple Should Use
- The Best Self-Care Apps To Improve Your Life
Is our list missing something you love? Or want to share your slam dunk Valentine’s Day gift idea? Let us know in the comments!
For more helpful tools for couples, head over to our Healthy Couples page.
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The creators of Ryan and Alex Duo Life. We are a husband-wife duo and “lifestyle engineers.”
After eight years working in the corporate world as engineers, we left our high-powered jobs to tackle our true passion — helping couples engineer their best lives.
The synergy of our engineering minds and ten years of health coaching experience produced Ryan and Alex Duo Life. Our mission is to help you transform your bodies, minds, and relationship as a couple.
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